Many people say that the harmony of married couples sexual relationship is one key to harmony of domestic life as a whole.
In early marriage, sexual intercourse married couple may not really cause problems. Both in terms of quality and quantity. In fact, tend to exceed the 'dose'. Understandably, they are many years of a latent desire has just been released.
But, over time, can only intercourse is declining quality and quantity. Many factors influence. Boredom, no challenge, family problems, child problems, presumed the existence or PIL WIL, and more.
If this happens, the harmony of family life may be threatened. So not surprisingly, the high number of divorces that struck our society today. Although not all of them caused the case 'bed', but some are definitely related to the problem.
Things we need to realize and anticipation is, sexual relations, will naturally decrease over time. So-so we analogikan with our favorite things. For example cell phones that we've just bought. Could be, on our first night was hard to sleep thinking about mobile phones. We are busy tinkering with the various features available. In addition, we will guard it carefully. May not fall, not allowed to blister. Similarly in the next few days.
But, three-four months later, we even almost forgot with the newness of mobile phones. We've become accustomed to it. Scratches, abrasions, falls, etc are no longer too worried about us. This fact also applies to couples sexual relationship.
Therefore, a decrease occurs naturally desire, then we must anticipate. Even if the decline will persist, at least not too big. If it can fluctuate within the normal range. How? Many, even you have to be creative themselves. So be creative lah. As a guide, here are some suggestions.
In early marriage, sexual intercourse married couple may not really cause problems. Both in terms of quality and quantity. In fact, tend to exceed the 'dose'. Understandably, they are many years of a latent desire has just been released.
But, over time, can only intercourse is declining quality and quantity. Many factors influence. Boredom, no challenge, family problems, child problems, presumed the existence or PIL WIL, and more.
Things we need to realize and anticipation is, sexual relations, will naturally decrease over time. So-so we analogikan with our favorite things. For example cell phones that we've just bought. Could be, on our first night was hard to sleep thinking about mobile phones. We are busy tinkering with the various features available. In addition, we will guard it carefully. May not fall, not allowed to blister. Similarly in the next few days.
But, three-four months later, we even almost forgot with the newness of mobile phones. We've become accustomed to it. Scratches, abrasions, falls, etc are no longer too worried about us. This fact also applies to couples sexual relationship.
Therefore, a decrease occurs naturally desire, then we must anticipate. Even if the decline will persist, at least not too big. If it can fluctuate within the normal range. How? Many, even you have to be creative themselves. So be creative lah. As a guide, here are some suggestions.
- Because sexual intercourse is a physical and psychic activity, it is absolutely necessary to maintain physical fitness. Exercise regularly and eat nutritious food. Fitness plays an important role in supporting performance during intercourse. In contrast, sluggish and lacking body excited cause problems.
- Psychological factors or kejiawaan also must be considered. Binalah mutual respect with their spouse. Never get bored saying the word 'love'. Seem trivial and trifling, but great influence. Trust me! Then, last but not least, prove that love. Small example, with the rewarded flowers or anything what she likes.
- If you are the romantic type, keep it. But for those of you who think romance is a mere hoax, please change your mindset. What's wrong with sending sms seduction to a husband or wife, or bermanja-spoiled as when first married. Romanticism can increase sexual arousal, even though already dimmed.
- A clean and attractive appearance plays an important role to increase sexual desire. Moreover, if added fragrances. If you are the type who only dress up when they want out of the house, please try to dress up when in the house, then feel the difference.
- Occasionally, change your bed atmosphere. Location of the bed, room color, position of the closet, etc.. That said, the paint colors and furniture room enough effect, so choose colors that you and your partner likes.
- There is nothing wrong in having sex variation. Love the style variations from the 'usual style' could be a new relationship energy.
- Do not just in the bedroom. Try another place such as a sofa, bathroom, or kitchen. Obviously, while maintaining your privacy. Going on vacation out of town is also one of the alternatives renew your sexual desire.
- Sexual relationships as well as ball games. You must prepare your stamina and have a sniper strategy in order to survive for 90 minutes a game. Sexual relationship that ended with an orgasm, it usually will strongly encourage couples to do it again next time.
- 9. There are many more, please develop your own. Here your creativity is demanded.
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